Hello everyone!
It’s discussion Friday once again and this week I decided to
tackle a bit of a sensitive subject- Fandom Wars. Let me write a disclaimer
lest anyone be offended beyond repair. These are my own, honest views of my
experience in the fandom and I don’t intend to be offensive or rude. I just
want to put this topic out there to get a true view of what my fellow Exo-L’s
think.
Recently a new “project” was launched to sabotage the comeback
of a VERY popular group- I’ll give you three guesses as to who that group is.
Even though the “project” isn’t aimed at Exo, it does involve Exo-L’s and using
Exo to sabotage the other group. This is something I personally do not approve
of. As a multi-fandom K-pop fan, it becomes awkward for me when a fandom war
breaks out. It also makes me feel embarrassed to be a part of the fandom that
starts the war and I can’t help but feel like I’m not alone in my view here.
But this new “project” is not the first time Exo and Exo-L’s
have been dragged into something. A more recent example would be when Exo made their
comeback with “Lotto”, a campaign was launched to prevent Exo from winning. At the
time I was extremely disappointed to see that the rivalry between fandoms was so intense that eighteen of them teamed up to bring down one group. And to use
a newly debuted group to do it? The whole thing felt wrong on so many levels.
The same thing is happening again and I’ve seen a few Exo-L’s
that are ready to jump in and sabotage another group- the same fans that most definitely
would have complained when Exo was being attacked. So it brings up the question
of why is it so necessary to start these wars? Why can’t we all live peacefully
and not drag the name of our fandom into the abyss?
I understand that there are some fans who dedicate their time
solely to one group but for the majority of us who are multi-fandom, lines
become blurred very easily. With project “Break Wings”, I find myself wanting
to remove myself from both fandoms just to enjoy the comeback of one of my
groups in peace. And that is a heart-breaking fact. There is no doubt that Exo
is always going to be my number one group, but that does not mean I’m willing
to use their music to sabotage another group that I also happen to love dearly.
In fact, how do you think Exo feels about their fans using them to bring down
someone else? Suho is always telling us to love- Exo, Saranghaja? I’m sure that
rings a bell.
I hate that my Twitter and Amino feeds are filled with fans
hating on each other and opposing groups. But it’s not like this is a new phenomenon
because fandom wars between Exo-L’s and other fandoms have always been a thing,
although I will admit that over the years our fandom has grown and matured so
much. Three years ago I wasn’t completely happy to be in a fandom that was perceived
in a bad way, but today it’s not like that. I’m proud to be a part of a fandom
that recognised the need to grow up and not incite silly fights. We want to be
a fandom that Exo is proud to call their own, right?
So I guess what I’m getting at here is a plea. Let’s be the
bigger person and not get involved in “projects” that could ruin our name as
Exo-L’s and embarrass Exo either. Our boys work extremely hard and deserve our
support. We should help them achieve greater heights through fair means and
that means voting for our group when we need to, driving up views of our own
music videos and buying their albums. Let’s not team up and use methods to
bring down any group we see as “rivals” or unworthy because even they have
trained and worked extremely hard to get where they are. If you’re solely dedicated
to Exo, then continue being an upstanding and mature Exo-L- don’t start wars or
pick on other fandoms or groups. And if you’re multi-fandom like me, then enjoy
the Kpop life and don’t feel like you have to pick sides in a war. Step out for
a bit and just enjoy the comebacks of whatever group you’re supporting.
At the end of the day, the most important thing as an Exo-L
is to keep supporting Exo and help them achieve even greater things. If you do
find that we’re being attacked, don’t retaliate because that’s the reaction
they want. And do not be the attackers! Let’s keep the name and banner of Exo-L
and Exo flying high and show the world that we won’t be shaken or participate
in unfair wars.
I could keep writing my lonesome opinion on staying out of
fan wars, but the point of this discussion is to hear what you guys think. Drop
me a comment and tell me if you agree with me or if you think I’m being a naïve
Exo-L. And how do you think everyone else views our fandom? I’m really looking forward
to the responses.
With that said, I think there’s only one thing left to say,
Exo-L’s, Saranghaja!
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